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When Trauma is Right in Front of You and You Don't See It.
What is trauma? Trauma is an emotional or physical response to an event or a set of circumstances that is deeply upsetting. It makes a person feel helpless, frightened, and overwhelmed, leaving lasting negative effects on their mental and physical well-being. (American Psychological Association) It isn’t too difficult to look up a definition of trauma, or to find symptoms listed online. You can easily look up the different types of trauma. However, when you encounter someon
HAVEN of Mercy
Sep 24 min read


Why Victims Don't Seem to Make Sense
Curiosity Before Conclusions: Understanding the Hidden Effects of Trauma One of the greatest lessons I have learned while walking alongside victims of abuse is this: Many of the behaviors that seem confusing start to make sense once you understand trauma. Without that understanding, it is easy to misinterpret what we see. We may conclude that a victim is bitter, unforgiving, dramatic, manipulative, or simply unwilling to move forward. But often the conclusions we came to ab
HAVEN of Mercy
Jul 225 min read


Trauma - A Survivor's Experience - Part 4
In the final part of this series shared by a survivor of Child Sexual Abuse, we look at the lasting and life-changing effects this abuse has on a survivor. The reality is that this ugliness that is done in secret has lifelong effects on the children who experienced it. Miss the previous posts? Read Part 1 Read Part 2 Read Part 3 This article discusses sensitive and potentially distressing topics related to sexual abuse of a child. It may be triggering or unsettling for some r
HAVEN of Mercy
May 45 min read
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